1. CHECK YOUR ATTITUDE:
No matter how sexy you are or how you dress, if you have a bad attitude, your husband will struggle to desire you. If you’re always complaining, negative, bitter, or cold, he’ll stay away.
2. CHECK HIS STRESS LEVELS:
Sex originates in the mind. A man’s penis will have a hard time erecting when he is mentally strained. Desire and worry are not compatible
3. CHECK YOUR HYGIENE:
Your husband might want to do things to your body, but if you don’t keep it clean or take showers, he might find it difficult to do more than just penetration.
4. CHECK HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH PORN:
A husband who is addicted to porn or masturbation will rarely make sexual advances on you. You will be in competition with the fantasies in his mind and on his phone, not to mention his hand. If he is addicted, don’t judge him; support him in breaking the habit.
5. CHECK YOUR TONE:
A man can be easily turned off by a wife’s tone. If a wife’s tone is unwelcoming, it can cause a husband to come home late, not because he is cheating, but because he is not feeling welcome. Do you expect your husband to love your presence even when you’re harsh because he enjoys your company? If he doesn’t enjoy your presence, he won’t desire you.
6. CHECK YOUR PAST RESPONSE TO HIS ADVANCES:
Many wives turn down the husband’s advances then expect him to easily come back when she eventually wants pleasure. It’s normal for men to feel tired as well. The more you punish his advances, the more you push him away.
7. CHECK IF YOU PRAISE ANOTHER MAN MORE THAN HIM:
If you praise your pastor, ex, father, brother, boss, favorite celebrity, or another woman’s husband while belittling him, you will bruise his ego. Their ego is what men love. If you hurt his ego, you’ll discourage him from wanting you.
8. CHECK HOW YOU TREAT HIM IN PUBLIC AND PRIVATE:
If you disrespect him or talk down to him in front of others or children, it will affect him just like it would affect you if he did it to you.
May your day be wonderful, and Alex Reporter loves you!!
Source: The-Look Mahlatse
